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His Heart Speaks

Welcome to His Heart Speaks

I am a healing coach who specializes in creating safe spaces for men and revealing  God’s heart for His sons. I believe in the power of our personal stories to reveal what needs to be healed in our lives, as well as the tools that God has already equipped us with for transformation. Please read more below and in my Heart to Heart blog series.

Why Am I Here?

Why Am I Here?

You know your purpose and your calling by what pulls on the strings of your heart. The thing you pray, cry, and get spitting mad over the most, is probably YOUR thing. It’s clear to me that I am undeniably passionate about my Black brothers. It is almost always easy...

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This is the Heart to Heart blog. Inside, you will find articles from myself and others who have a heart to build and encourage men, letters inspired by men we hold dear, prayers to help you in your journey through life, and other inspirational and educational resources. 

Home for the Holidays

Home for the Holidays

The holidays can be an amazing time to celebrate and connect with family and at the same time can be really good for reminding us about what we’ve lost. We reminisce on good times, think about loved...

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Make Room

Make Room

Are you ready? I mean are you really ready to receive the wonderful things you have dared to hope, dream, and pray for? In order to receive, you will have to let go of some of the ideas you have...

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Your Attention, Please

Your Attention, Please

Do you know that there is a fight for your focus? Your position in this world as a husband, father, son, brother, friend, family member, leader, and more is so important and yet there are forces...

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You Are Enough

You Are Enough

You are enough. God made you and He makes no mistakes. The way you look, your voice, your unique talents and abilities are all by design and they are enough. We don’t need you to be anyone else, we...

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Affirming YOU

Affirming YOU

When I wrote about being kind to yourself, I mentioned the importance of replacing negative self-talk. One practice I have found very effective is listening to affirmations recorded in my own voice....

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Be Kind To Yourself

Be Kind To Yourself

Here is a friendly reminder to take it easy on yourself. How might you do that? Here are a few ways:   Forgive yourself for your mistakes - as humans, we make mistakes. Some mistakes carry...

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A Prayer to Get You Through

A Prayer to Get You Through

I am so grateful for an amazing teacher who helped me deepen my relationship with God by encouraging me to get all the way real with Him. I thought I was already doing pretty good in my...

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You Deserve It

You Deserve It

You are God’s precious son, uniquely and wonderfully made. I am so glad you are here. I need you to know how much I appreciate you, so I will be sure to thank you often. Every day that you are in my...

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Taking Steps

Taking Steps

When you decide you want something for your life, it is important to be clear on what that looks like. You should write down in detail what you want your life to look like and then review it many...

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Worth Fighting For

Worth Fighting For

If you are 100% honest with yourself, who are the people you really want to connect with in your life? In a perfect world, who would you have close, healthy relationships with? For example, Your...

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Fighting Old Battles

Fighting Old Battles

Upon being born into this earth, we inevitably collect bumps, bruises, and scars. While our physical wounds heal and most are never seen or heard of again, our emotional wounds if never addressed...

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Let Me See You

Let Me See You

I was speaking with a friend who stopped short of sharing how he really felt in the midst of grieving a loved one, saying that he had already given me enough negativity for one day, and he only...

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Say More – Connections

Say More – Connections

There was a time in my life when I suffered through my toughest challenges silently. I didn’t reach out for help, I didn’t tell anyone what I was going through until it reached a critical point. I...

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A Prayer for Connection

A Prayer for Connection

Dear Heavenly Father, I am crying out to you on behalf of my Brother. I pray that every relational wound in his life would be revealed and healed in Jesus’ Name. Thank you for bringing deep healing...

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I Am Sorry

I Am Sorry

It’s really hard to move forward when you haven’t completed the past. I don’t want anything to stand in our way, so I want to address some important things by first saying that I am sorry. I may not...

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